Men's Perspectives
If Any Of This Was You, Know That You're Not Alone
March, 2026, was oen of the craziest of months. There were so many things that happened, both personally and in the world, that it's hard to belive that everybody didn't run headlong off a cliff, holding hands, and singing seven bloody kum-bayas. That seems to be the way the world runs, at least anymore. So, let's dig into it, and if any of this was you, know that you're not alone.
By Jason Morton7 days ago in Men
10 LOVELY TRAITS MEN RESPECT IN WOMEN
What Actually Makes Him Fall Deeper in Love Beyond Physical Attraction Why Respect Matters More Than Attraction The difference between a man who is attracted to you and a man who deeply respects you is the difference between a relationship that burns out in months and one that lasts decades, because attraction is chemical and temporary, driven by novelty and physical appearance that inevitably changes, while respect is built on character traits and behaviors that deepen over time and that create the foundation for genuine partnership where both people feel valued and seen for who they actually are rather than for the role they perform. Most relationship advice focuses on attraction strategies like how to look, what to say, and how to create chemistry, but women who have experienced long-term successful relationships consistently report that the turning point was not when their partner became attracted to them but when their partner began to genuinely respect them, and this respect manifested as deeper listening, greater consideration of their opinions, willingness to be vulnerable, and the kind of protective loyalty that comes from recognizing someone as your equal and your partner rather than just your romantic interest.
By The Curious Writer7 days ago in Men
Golden Gloves Boxing
Author's note: My grandson is fighting his second bout tonight. He won his first fight a few weeks ago at 170, and now this week he is fighting at 160. For the first weight class, he had to gain weight, and for this class, he had to cut weight.
By Denise E Lindquist11 days ago in Men
The Disappearance Expert Who Vanished
Marcus Webb spent fifteen years finding people who didn't want to be found, bringing closure to families of the missing and tracking runaways across continents, until the morning he left his office saying he'd be back in an hour and was never seen again, and the clues he left behind suggest he discovered something about the nature of disappearances that made him a target, or that he finally decided to use his expertise to disappear himself for reasons no one can understand.
By The Curious Writer21 days ago in Men
The Man Who Fell From 33,000 Feet and Lived:
How a Serbian flight attendant survived the highest fall without a parachute and the mysterious explosion that caused it The survival of Vesna Vulović, a twenty-two-year-old flight attendant who fell 33,330 feet from an exploding aircraft over Czechoslovakia in 1972 and lived, represents the most extreme survivable fall in recorded history, and the circumstances of both the explosion that destroyed JAT Yugoslav Airlines Flight 367 and her impossible survival have never been fully explained, making her story one of the most remarkable and mysterious in aviation history. On January 26, 1972, Vulović was working aboard DC-9 Flight 367 traveling from Stockholm to Belgrade with stops in Copenhagen and Zagreb, and she was actually a last-minute crew substitution, replacing another flight attendant named Vesna who had the same first name, and this twist of fate meant that she was on a plane she was never supposed to be on, working a route that was not her usual assignment, when at 4:01 PM the aircraft was at cruising altitude over the mountains of eastern Czechoslovakia and suddenly exploded, breaking apart in mid-air and sending debris and passengers falling six miles to the ground below.
By The Curious Writer24 days ago in Men
SIGNS OF of A HIGH VALUE MAN:
1. He Has a Job and Takes Responsibility A high-value man understands the importance of responsibility. Whether he is building a career, running a business, or working toward something meaningful, he believes in earning his way and standing on his own feet. He does not rely on others to carry his burdens or solve his problems. Instead, he takes ownership of his life and the direction it is going. Responsibility also shows in the way he handles commitments, whether personal or professional. People trust him because he follows through on what he promises.
By The Curious Writer28 days ago in Men
Slap of maturity
Slap of maturity sounds familiar? It should be. It's not because it's what you know, it's familiar because you and I have faced it. Looking as ourselves while sitting in a corner of the room, on the office chair, in a coffee shop or at the death bed. We do understand that maturity hit us unknowingly and we just moved with the flow.
By Mubarik Ahmad about a month ago in Men
The Weight of Expectations:
There is a silent pressure that follows many Black men throughout their lives. It is not always spoken about openly, yet it shapes decisions, identity, and self-worth. Society places expectations on Black men that are often contradictory, unrealistic, and deeply rooted in history.
By Nkwenkwezi Mgebisaabout a month ago in Men
What Fathers Uniquely Provide
The Error of Treating Parenting Roles as Functionally Identical Modern parenting theory often begins with the assumption that mothers and fathers are largely interchangeable, differing only in style or temperament. From this view, any deficits in one parent can be compensated for by the other through increased emotional effort, sensitivity, or presence. Parenting becomes a question of intention and quantity rather than function and role. This assumption is appealing because it aligns with cultural preferences for symmetry and fairness, but it collapses under closer examination of developmental outcomes.
By Peter Thwing - Host of the FST Podcast2 months ago in Men
